When is it the Right Time to Get Engaged?

Monday, 1st November 2010

The right time for an engagement depends upon many factors, for example how ready you feel to get married and how strongly you feel that you have found the person you want to be with forever. Remember you need to be ready to handle the excitement and expectations of family and friends and also remember that from the moment you put an engagement ring on her finger you are making an enormous commitment to another person. As such, you may want to get engaged during a time when both of you are free of major life stresses, such as work or family crises, so you can make a sound decision and enjoy the experience.

Get to know your partner's (and your own) strengths and weaknesses. Do you bring out the best in each other and are you capable of handling conflict and unexpected life events? Although the proposal itself can be a surprise, many couples discuss the idea of engagement ahead of time. This helps ensure their expectations are compatible and that they discuss important issues such as finances, children, religion and family relationships.

Whenever you decide to get engaged, make sure you know it is right for you.